my favorite toys(and they may surprise you)

My favorite toys! They may surprise you . . .

If you know me in an erotic sense — which I hope you do — you know that I’m not a big fan of vibrators. They’re too intense for me, and I generally think they suck. I got my first vibe in college and was kinda disappointed with the feeling. Everyone raved about how good they were and how they could spend all day in bed with their toy. Mine sat in a drawer for years until I threw it away.

While vibes do make me orgasm really quickly, I find the quality of the orgasm to be like fast food — cheap and quick — which especially erotically, is definitely not how I roll. I prefer to take my time and let pleasure build. 

This isn’t to say that I dislike toys; quite the contrary! I have many toys that I love to play with, which you can see for yourself in my videos! From conventional ones you’d find at a sex shop to things you didn’t know could be erotically stimulating (hello bubble wrap!), here are my favorites:

Feathers: Drag a feather (especially ostrich) across my skin and watch my body undulate with pleasure! I always keep a feather wand on hand for my self pleasure sessions.

Shakti Mat: If you’re not sure what this is, Google can help you. While I use this mat therapeutically, it is also one of my favorite kinky toys! Pokey, sharp, intense . . . It checks all of my boxes. I like to drag my body across it ever so slowly and savor the moment.

Njoy Pure Pleasure Wand: I learned to squirt with this metal wand. I love that it’s heavy and I can heat it up beforehand. The other end is amazing for prostate massage.

Rope: My girlfriend introduced me to Shibari several years ago and it’s one of my favorite connective toys. I love the feeling of being tightly squeezed and having someone else in control. If you’d ever like to include connective rope in a session, my girlfriend is available for instruction. She’s also hot.

Butt plugs: And not just any old butt plug. I like the shapely silicon ones. My trainer set is amazing and I continue to recommend it over and over.

So, now that we have gone over my favorites, here are my least favorite toys and why:

Vibrators: You already read about how I feel. I am open to them on other areas of my body, just not my genitals.

Dildos: Even though I love dick, I don’t love dildos. They just don’t do it for me. I want a warm body attached!

Nipple clamps: Hard pass for me. I don’t enjoy my nipples being played with in general. I will gladly play with your nipples though!

Sybian: While I do have several videos of me riding a Sybian on my OnlyFans and enjoying the experience, I won’t be seeking another one out anytime soon. They’re loud and vibrate. It felt very robotic and over-stimulating.

Violet Wand: While I think they’re super cool and will happily play with a partner with one, I don’t love the feeling of electricity on my skin. I tend to feel over-stimulated.

Intrigued? Write me back and I’d love to hear what your favorite sex toy is!