This coming month of November I’ll be turning 40! I’m excited to enter a new decade of life, have new experiences, and grow more as a person. I hope you’ll celebrate with me!

My favorite way to be celebrated is with quality time together: Walking around a museum, over coffee, snuggling up by the fire talking about quantum physics . . . the list goes on! 

In an age where everyone and everything commands our attention, it can feel nearly impossible to place our focus where we want to. So the question is: What are you paying attention to? 

I’m often intrigued by the posts I read about love, sex and escorting on Twitter. While I get having strong boundaries — they’re a must in this line of work — I feel like the folks with the loudest voices aren’t always reflective of how I feel. I also don’t always share my personal feelings because SW Twitter can be a vicious place!

If you’ve noticed that I’m less present online lately, it’s because I’m taking a break to recover from surgery. I’m doing well with recovery and my body feels stronger each day. I’m so grateful to those of you who have sent your well wishes, books, flowers, and other support. If you do feel like sending me something special while I continue to recover, you can peruse my wish list here or checkout some of my favorite things (just click here and scroll down)!

What does freedom mean to me? In the body, freedom is felt. It’s an ease and buoyancy of the muscles of the diaphragm, pelvic floor and jaw. It’s a flow of unrestricted breath in and out of my body. It’s a buoyant heart that soars beyond the confines of a body. 

I really wanted to call this blog post “Full Moon Orgy”, but I also try to be the tiniest bit discreet. I imagine you opening your browser at work all nonchalant and having to shut it quickly, cursing my name as you do. Anyway . . .

I thought I’d do a little Q&A with Bess Love since y’all love asking me questions. These are real questions from the NGL anonymous question link on my profile. Let’s dive in!

Hi love! Spring has sprung! At least here in Oklahoma. Daffodils are blooming, bugs are humming and my Birkenstock sandals have made their annual debut. My desire to eat all the cheese is waning as my appetite for spring greens is rising. . 

If you know me, you know I’m passionate about natural self-care. After college, I studied yogic lifestyle and Ayurveda, the traditional Hindu system of medicine, which is based on the idea of balance in bodily systems and uses diet, herbal treatment, and yogic breathing. The term Ayurveda is derived from the Sanskrit words ayur (life) and veda (science or knowledge). Thus, Ayurveda translates to knowledge of life.

Discovering and stating your true desires is something most folks never do. It’s vulnerable to dive into the heart and there are no guarantees. So many of us stay in the safe zone. Getting by with “just enough” pleasure to sustain us. But pleasure is abundant and ripe for the picking! Diving into pleasure often leads to more fulfillment in relationships, work and life. Better sex is just the tip of the iceberg!

I’ve been enjoying some much deserved bathrobe and soup time during this season of hibernation. Taking time to do nothing is a practice that I hold dear.

It was a day much like one of these last year that I had the insight of becoming a Master Receiver. As someone who was used to burning out regularly, putting so much energy into projects and people that I crash and burn, the idea of receiving more sounded luxurious. How could I let life spoil me? And how do I receive these gifts with a receptive and gracious heart?

What a year this has been! 2023 was the most successful year I’ve had as an entrepreneur and I have you to thank for that!

. . . and I still want more!

I’m pretty public about having multiple partners. If you follow me on Twitter or Onlyfans, you’ve probably seen us being absolutely adorable and sexy together. I’m a Lover! I love romance, devotion, and love in all of its flavors and varieties.

While I cherish any time we get to spend together, I am especially fond of shared experiences. When we get to try something new together, we’re creating memories beyond the bedroom.

My favorite toys! They may surprise you . . .

If you know me in an erotic sense — which I hope you do — you know that I’m not a big fan of vibrators.

While vibes do make me orgasm really quickly, I find the quality of the orgasm to be like fast food — cheap and quick — which especially erotically, is definitely not how I roll. I prefer to take my time and let pleasure build. 

From the time my first client said “I love you and it’s so easy”, I knew that helping others access Love was my calling as a provider. In that moment of real connection — hearts open, bodies alive — we experienced Love. It was beautiful.

At the beginning of 2023 I created my ultimate Slvtty Bucket list!

Seven scintillating experiences I desired for myself.

Read more to find out what they are . . .

I enjoy deep, intimate connections.

New experiences excite me.

Stepping into the unknown with a new lover is thrilling, especially when we have chemistry and I’ve been allowed to steep in anticipation.