rates &

Patronage

Where to connect with me

  • Tulsa, OK (Local)

    Within Tulsa, I offer outcall dates and am happy to meet you at your upscale hotel.

    Kindly note, within Oklahoma I do not travel outside of Tulsa.

  • on tour

    Want to meet me for one of my upcoming tours? Let me know which one and let’s plan our rendezvous in an exciting location!

    Please note, on tour meet-ups are in-call only.

  • fly me to you (FMTY)

    I would love to travel with you or to you! Fly Me To You is available domestic or internationally.

    Minimum booking is dinner and a show ($3,000) plus you cover all travel expenses including airfare (business or first class flights), accommodations (my own room), car transportation, meals and excursions.

  • drive me to you (DMTY)

    An exclusive offer for my patrons within a 4 hour driving radius of Tulsa. I’ll drive to you and will host out of my private accommodations (booked by me).

    This offer includes a minimum booking of a dinner date, and can be expanded to suit your desires.

“Bess made me feel seen, heard, and safe. She was so easy to talk to and her personality is so chilL . . . I cannot put into words how great a time I had with her. She is amazing at what she does!”

— Dakota

ways to connect with me

Indulge in the royal treatment with luxurious connection.

Dates over 3 hours include social time: Brunch, coffee, museums, live music, or dinner - I love adventure!

Let’s connect, laugh, flirt, explore the town and enjoy each other’s company.

Personal grooming is up to my discretion and varies based on my vibe.

Investment is in USD.

Meet me in tulsa or on tour:

An Introduction (1.5 hours), $1,000

Let’s Take Our Time (2 hours), $1,500

Dinner Date My favorite!!! (4 hours), $2,000

Dinner and a Show (Up to 7 hours), $3,000

Extras

For NYC and Boston, add $100 touring rate.

Time together can be expanded to suit your desires and the rate will be adjusted to reflect this.

COUPLES: Same rate as an individual. I love couples!

DUOS: Rate is determined at time of booking.

Desire additional time together? Checkout my Fly Me To You offerings.

Required Deposit

A 50% deposit is required for all travel bookings (including FMTY, DMTY, and Tour Dates); 20% deposit is required for all local bookings.

Deposit is nonrefundable but if you cancel with 48 hour notice (7 days for FMTY) or more, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months.

“I had an amazing time! Bess is an amazing woman all around and I’d love to see her again. Thank you, Bess for a very memorable experience. On my way home I was actually thinking that I’m done visiting other providers because I don’t think I’ll ever find as genuine and amazing of an experience as I did with Bess tonight. It felt very natural to be around her.”

— M

not quite ready to take the plunge?

I offer one-on-one virtual coaching for the human who is ready to expand their capacity for pleasure through intimate, supportive conversation.

Together we will move you through shame, broaden your capacity for pleasure and security voicing your desires, and explore ideas like non-monogamy and kink!

Looking for something different?

Sponsor a Tour

Click here and email me to sponsor a tour - $2000 and up

You cover airfare (business or first class flights, roundtrip), and a minimum booking of a Social Date.