i have a boyfriend and a girlfriend

I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend . . . and I still want more!

I’m pretty public about having multiple partners. If you follow me on Twitter or Onlyfans, you’ve probably seen us being absolutely adorable and sexy together. I’m a Lover! I love romance, devotion, and love in all of its flavors and varieties.

I’ve known I am bisexual since I was a tiny human. Trying to fit into monogamy when I started dating was a struggle. While I absolutely loved and adored my partners, I always wanted more. I felt ashamed for being so deviant, for not being content with what was in front of me and for fantasizing about having a boyfriend and a girlfriend.

Thank goodness I learned that I can have it all and feel really good about it!

Personal development is a great passion of mine and something I’ve devoted much of my time/life to. I get to be my full kinky, sweet, shapeshiftery self! Granting myself permission allowed me to start to meet other people who are similar. 

I met my boyfriend on Tinder over 4 years ago. They were very upfront about being polyamorous and already being in a loving relationship. I went into it with a spirit of adventure, curious what was there. While I’d been in open relationships previously, it was always about having sex with other people, not having relationships. This was uncharted territory for me! 

I met my girlfriend on Instagram about 3 years ago. We both liked Shibari and she was the first person to tie me. Again, I didn’t really have any expectations of what our relationship should look like or be. 

I have other lovers and sexy friends near and far. I’ve found with clear communication and a sense of adventure, the world is my sexy oyster! Comet lovers are those who I see occasionally when the stars align. 

A common question is if my boyfriend and girlfriend are also dating. No, they’re not. They call each other spicy friends because while they do have spicy times together, it’s not often. Though it is adorable when they do! 

Do we have threesomes? Yes, yes we do. I love when the universe conspires to make me the center of group sex. More of this, please!

Both of my partners have other partners too. Our Polycule is large and loving. It’s like an extended family that is a pleasure to spend time with! Camping, pool parties, holidays, the Chinese buffet — We love to spend time together! And no, it’s not all about sex. 

How many partners is enough?

While my love is limitless, my time is not. Between work and the partners I already have, it takes a high caliber human to catch my eye. I’m quite satisfied with my current life, though my heart is always open to new connections.

My heart wants to taste as many flavors of love as it can!